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IS YOUR HUMANITY INTACT? family marriage and family life Feb 18, 2021

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 5

Tip 1: HUMANITY CHECK – I have met loads of highly religious people but I am not sure I have interfaced with too many human beings whose humanity is still intact and hasn’t been tampered with in the last few years and that...

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ARE YOU IN A MARITAL CAGE? family marriage and family life Feb 17, 2021

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 4

I invested 6hours with a group of top executives in a particular sector 2days ago  and it was fun sharing all I have learnt over the years with these amazing people but it also brought to the fore the fact that loads of people are...

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Are you a ferrari trapped in the body of a Mazda? family marriage and family life Feb 16, 2021

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE - 3

Until there is a clear purpose for getting married that requires the rest of your life to achieve as a team, every marital challenge provides an opportunity to press the exit button. If the reward for staying married for 40years is that the whole of...

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WHY DID YOU MARRY? love marriage and family life Feb 15, 2021

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE  - 2 (WHY DID YOU MARRY)? 

In 18years of working with troubled relationships I have heard all sorts in counseling room that makes it easy to decipher why couples struggle about what should have been avoided.

Often times we have presented...

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE love marriage and family life Feb 03, 2021

ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE

Chuks graduated from a prestigious University and it wasn't a problem getting his dream job after all his dad was well connected. He grew up with a retinue of house helps who were always there to serve him and even now that he has rented his apartment he has 3 domestic helps. He...

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MAY DAY! MAY DAY! faith human resource personal development Jan 29, 2021

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MAY DAY

 

If you are a frequent flyer and you have experienced a very difficult turbulence then you will know that the most dreaded words from the cockpit of a pilot are May Day. Somehow these are 2 words already associated with a state of hopelessness which...

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The power of your RITUAL - 2 Jan 27, 2021

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The power of your RITUAL & ROUTINE  – 2

Here are a couples of facts about your ritual and routine

 

  • There is no greatness without a great routine
  • Every time you seek greatness without an intentional routine you set yourself up for accidental...
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The power of your RITUAL family human resource people personal development Jan 27, 2021

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The power of your RITUAL

You will never change your life until you change something you do daily; the secret of your future is in your daily routine – John C Maxwell

 

There is no high performing player who doesn’t have a daily ritual that makes their...

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THE UNIVERSAL LAW OF BREAKTHROUGH goalscoring marriage and family life money sales Jan 26, 2021

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THE UNIVERSAL LAW OF BREAKTHROUGH

 

Once upon a time Israel had a freedom fighter called Moses who created what is now known in corporate circles as the principle of delegation as well as showing humanity the possibility of walking through the ocean by...

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SUCCESS IS A JOURNEY personal development Jan 26, 2021

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SUCCESS IS A JOURNEY
Yesterday, Chelsea football club sacked their all time leading goal scorer Frank Lampard as their coach no thanks to a run of poor results. A lot of people did not believe he could be fired because his hiring was at best emotional having not had any...

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The Catholic pathway to solving social problems faith Oct 30, 2020


I was on a project as a consultant a couple years ago. It was a catholic and a US agency sponsored project. I was very excited about it since it was my first project that would have links to the Vatican and I needed to maximize it.
As I went through the entire curriculum which had been delivered...

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The Death of SHAME faith Sep 24, 2020

One of my favorite sessions in group coaching and therapy is the tree of life system. 
This is one activity that promotes our humanity and helps us see ourselves the way we are. It is an activity that makes you draw your entire life as a tree showing 
your root - background, 
your...

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