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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 5
Tip 1: HUMANITY CHECK – I have met loads of highly religious people but I am not sure I have interfaced with too many human beings whose humanity is still intact and hasn’t been tampered with in the last few years and that...
FAMILY LIFE TODAY with PF
ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 4
I invested 6hours with a group of top executives in a particular sector 2days ago and it was fun sharing all I have learnt over the years with these amazing people but it also brought to the fore the fact that loads of people are...
FAMILY LIFE TODAY with PF
ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE - 3
Until there is a clear purpose for getting married that requires the rest of your life to achieve as a team, every marital challenge provides an opportunity to press the exit button. If the reward for staying married for 40years is that the whole of...
FAMILY LIFE TODAY with PF
ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE - 2 (WHY DID YOU MARRY)?
In 18years of working with troubled relationships I have heard all sorts in counseling room that makes it easy to decipher why couples struggle about what should have been avoided.
Often times we have presented...
ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE
Chuks graduated from a prestigious University and it wasn't a problem getting his dream job after all his dad was well connected. He grew up with a retinue of house helps who were always there to serve him and even now that he has rented his apartment he has 3 domestic helps. He...
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MAY DAY
If you are a frequent flyer and you have experienced a very difficult turbulence then you will know that the most dreaded words from the cockpit of a pilot are May Day. Somehow these are 2 words already associated with a state of hopelessness which...
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The power of your RITUAL & ROUTINE – 2
Here are a couples of facts about your ritual and routine
- There is no greatness without a great routine
- Every time you seek greatness without an intentional routine you set yourself up for accidental...
FAMILY LIFE TODAY with PF
The power of your RITUAL
You will never change your life until you change something you do daily; the secret of your future is in your daily routine – John C Maxwell
There is no high performing player who doesn’t have a daily ritual that makes their...
FAMILY LIFE TODAY with PF
THE UNIVERSAL LAW OF BREAKTHROUGH
Once upon a time Israel had a freedom fighter called Moses who created what is now known in corporate circles as the principle of delegation as well as showing humanity the possibility of walking through the ocean by...
FAMILY LIFE TODAY with PF
SUCCESS IS A JOURNEY
Yesterday, Chelsea football club sacked their all time leading goal scorer Frank Lampard as their coach no thanks to a run of poor results. A lot of people did not believe he could be fired because his hiring was at best emotional having not had any...
I was on a project as a consultant a couple years ago. It was a catholic and a US agency sponsored project. I was very excited about it since it was my first project that would have links to the Vatican and I needed to maximize it.
As I went through the entire curriculum which had been delivered...
One of my favorite sessions in group coaching and therapy is the tree of life system.
This is one activity that promotes our humanity and helps us see ourselves the way we are. It is an activity that makes you draw your entire life as a tree showing
your root - background,
your...