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Finding the ultimate you

effectiveness parenting workplace Jan 09, 2022

I want you to find a brand new journal this morning because I am not out to excite you; I am simply out to make you much more effective than you can ever be. In 18years of working with the most difficult couples and parents and helping them scramble their pains with amazing results, I can tell you that an ineffective 'you' will not just sabotage your goals, it will also sabotage everyone around you.

 

I want you to do the following activities;

  1. Let’s assume the ultimate 'you' is standing in front of you right now(The you that you have always wanted to be) can you vividly describe that 'you' in your journal.(kindly include what you feel you deserve to earn that you are not earning)
  2. I want you to describe your present reality and results including what you currently earn and the quality of your happiness
  3. If question 1 is 100% what would you rate question 2?
  4. If you don’t like your scores, do you think the way your life is presently structured can deliver better if you don’t radically change something today?

 

I once organized a ‘change your life session’ about 8years ago where I made a group of 20 to answer over 200 questions to redesign their lives. Over 80% of those at that meeting have completely transformed their lives today and are doing so well.

 

Do you know why you have the current results that doesn’t reflect your reality?

It is down to your BELIEFS and your ACTIONS

 

If you audit your beliefs and the sources of your beliefs you will discover you have not consciously selected what can deliver the results you truly want. The best your present beliefs can produce is where you are. If you however embrace what can deliver the new outcomes, you can change your life.

 

Whosoever believes what I believe and is able to think my thoughts and take my actions the results I produce he shall replicate and greater results he will produce – Jesus

 

If you audit your mind today, you may be shocked at how much junk you have allowed in there that may never be relevant to the future you want to create.

 

Narrow is the way that truly leads to your desired life but very few will ever find it simply because, the broad way is popular and easy and majority walk therein.

 

Can you look at your life and check an activity that majority of the people around you have embraced daily and has not produced what you all want, yet you have continued to do it?

 

I can bet I know at least 2 of those activities. 

 

I want you to write out the ultimate 'you' once again and to list out your favorite activities, events, meetings and even the favorite sources of knowledge for your life.

 

-             Can they lead you to your ultimate life if you don’t change them?

-             Do they have the results that points to where you truly want to go?

 

Do you know a few people on the planet who have the results you want to have or living the dream life you feel you deserve?

-             What are their beliefs about life?

-             Why didn’t they show up on your original list?

 

You see, many of you want an engineering outcome but you have selected accountants to speak into your lives perpetually, because you love the speeches of the accountant, though it is very clear that what you want is an engineering outcome. Instead of sourcing for Engineers, you have added prayers to your accounting information hoping it produces an engineering result.

 

You can’t grow 6 packs by keeping your present diet and schedule; to grow 6 packs everything about you needs to change. Are you ready to radically change your life?

 

Become a Saviour today and find the pathway to personal fulfilment.

 

Priase Fowowe