Is your partner a Bossy Don?

I have received numerous responses to the question I asked yesterday and many couples are beginning to see that their reason for getting married is not strong enough to last a life time. I am however glad that many are learning to communicate and make things right.

I am certain that many of us are familiar with the fact that winning teams are not necessarily teams with the best players but teams with the right formation as well as a sound technical crew. Same way, the formation you play in marriage would determine the success or failure of that marriage.

Many couples are not able to weather the storms because their purpose for getting married is not strong enough and that plays out in the various marital formations that couples play. I will open up a few of the formations couples play and what it takes to win in marriage, as well as handling conflicts in your marriage or relationships.

The formations include the following:

Bossy Don- This is the one type of formation that people play. It happens when one party is more influential than the other or when the age disparity is very wide or a situation where one party feels he/she is already made and the other person has nothing to bring to the marital turf. Also, it happens when one is forced into marriage as a result of pregnancy or where one party, usually the man, lives with the "African man’s" mindset that says 'he is a king that must be served at all times by the woman'. Is your marriage characterized by the following?

-        You have no say and can hardly voice your opinion because he/she knows it all?

– There is no appreciation whatsoever and you feel enslaved?

– Are you emotionally drained and physically worn out while your partner enjoys dominating you?

– Do you get publicly humiliated by your spouse?

If this is your situation, we shall look at why you are where you are and what you need to do. In my entire coaching years I have discovered too many are here under whatever guise and both the bossy don and the partner need help because what people call superiority or inferiority complex are both low self-esteem issues.

If you must however save your marriage/relationship, you must first save yourself because the only language the boss understands is FORMIDABILITY, which is one of the core reasons we are helping people master and script their future at the 13 week becoming indispensable coaching program www.iampraisefowowe.com/aliens

I am a SAVIOUR

To be continued

Praise Fowowe

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