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HEALING IS YOUR RIGHTS

family family life practice or professionalism marriage and family life Mar 01, 2021

FAMILY LIFE TODAY with PF 

ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 12 – HEALING IS YOUR RIGHTS

 I love what I do daily in assisting people uninstall their hell and install their desired heaven. It is a job that is more or less a calling for me because even though clients pay a bit above the national average for my services the miracle of  seeing my clients finally discovering themselves and giving themselves the permission to live having uninstalled the softwares of self sabotaging beliefs that held them bound for too long is nothing short of a miracle.

Accidental spouses ain’t bad people; they are often victims of a bad engineering by the people that influenced them. However, there comes a time you must take responsibility for your pain because pains don’t go away by wishing them away or hoping the person that hurts you comes back to apologize.

Pains go away by taking responsibility for rising above the pains with a view to discovering what you may have overlooked which automatically changes the meanings you have ascribed to the pain.

  • What pain exists in your life?
  • What exactly happened that created the pain?
  • What did not happen that you have added to the pain?
  • What is the higher intention for the pain and if you rise a bit above the point where the pains happened what 5 positive lessons can you pick?
  • What exactly was the pains meant to prepare you for?
  • Who is your audience that the pains has prepared you to adequately serve?
  • What new meaning does the pain now mean to you?

No pain is a waste if only we channel it; every pain is a preparation for something bigger that we are likely to miss if we internalize the emotions of the pains.

You can heal today and now if you choose to rise and see things for what they truly are and not for what you think they are.

Once healing is total a wholesome spouse is what emerges and only a wholesome spouse can build a wholesome marriage.

 

I am a SAVIOUR

 

To be continued