FAMILY LIFE TODAY with PF
ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 17– WHAT IS YOUR GREATEST MARITAL FEAR?
……..as he thinks in his heart so is he – King Solomon
Not many people know that we often attract our fears but this has been proven over and over again. Unknown to many our thoughts are prayers and that includes our fears because your mind doesn’t have the capacity to reject what you are running away from; it is scripted to obey the action words in your thoughts and bring them to pass.
For example, if your dominant thought is ‘I don’t want a spouse who will cheat on me’ what your mind hears is the word cheating and it will naturally magnetize your fears into your life. This is exactly the Bible did not say let the weak say I am not weak instead it says let the weak say I am strong.
If I asked you to think about this ‘I will not be poor’ and match it with images in your heart you will discover that poverty and wealth will both show up. Compared to if I ask you to match ‘I am wealthy’ with images. You will discover poverty will not show up at all; only images of a wealthy you.
Many are self -defeated and are self -sabotaging but they blame it on someone else when in actual fact they attracted what they experience.
What is your greatest marital fear and why do you have that fear?
Are you afraid of divorce?
Are you afraid of infidelity?
Are you afraid of something bad happening to your child?
Are you scared of not finding the right spouse?
Your mind is a prayer bank and the universe will ultimately say AMEN to the dominant thoughts in your heart. This is the exact reason highly effective couples master their thoughts because they understand that thoughts are beings. They actually fill their minds with thoughts that are lovely, inspiring, virtuous, exciting and good report.
Accidental spouses self- sabotage by their thoughts and create exactly what they don’t want. Why don’t you fill your thoughts with what you truly want and make out time to create them in your mind.
If God says Amen to the thoughts in your heart what will your life look like?
To be continued