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What do you see?

Uncategorized Jul 22, 2021

It was the harvest festival on a Sunday and everyone was asked to come in their traditional attire and my friend bro. Egunjobi James Oluwaseun showed up in this Egungun attire.

Nobody knew he was the one;

A group saw this as a desecration of the house because a masquerade dared to come into the church and danced with everyone. This group failed to ask the critical question - If this guy was truly evil how come he did not bow at the name of Jesus since demons should tremble at the mention of that name?

Another group became scared because they felt a heavenly being had come to church and they were mostly scared because they considered this heavenly being to have other sources of power outside the power of God. Even though there was nothing on this guy outside his uniform, they already took a position

A smaller group just saw a guy who was extravagantly and differently dressed from everyone else. They were the group that joined the guy to dance.

Yet another group in Spain felt this was...

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If it's not broken, don't fix it

Uncategorized Jul 22, 2021
In my work across various cultures, I have seen all sorts, and instead of fighting what I see that contradicts my worldview, I have learnt to study and better understand things.

For example, when you are 2-dimensional in your worldview, you would see nothing but right and wrong, black and white and up and down. But once you move up a bit into 6-dimension, you start to see shades that don't fit into the norm or known realm, and if you study it, you may start to learn new things.

I once worked with couples in a culture where women are the husbands and men are the wives, and they were happy. The man was okay to move into the woman's home with her being the breadwinner. While that contradicted my worldview, I couldn't but notice how happy they were and how they never saw any issue in what they were doing.

I couldn't have gone in there to start to tell them they were wrong because that would mean upsetting their balance. If they weren't experiencing violence or divorce, why fight what they...
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How To Ask People For Money On Social Media

Uncategorized Jul 22, 2021
I am sure you are familiar with people asking you for money regularly on social media.

I am almost sure both sides are becoming tired already, and I mean those asking and those giving.

I have found the easiest way for both parties to be happy, and in case you are planning to ask someone for money, kindly follow these steps, and you will always get money:

1. Do an in-depth study of the person you want to get money from

2. Find out what they do for a living and what gives them the money you are about to demand. They most likely have a product or service

3. Find out the prices of their products and think of how much you can make if you become their sales agent/affiliate marketer

4. Calculate the exact amount you want to ask for and multiply it by 1000

5. Find out how many of their products you can sell and study who needs those products. In fact, start practising how to promote the product such that those you want to pitch to will find them irresistible

6. Slide into their DM and tell them you...
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21st Century Parenting

21st century parenting – Praise Fowowe

Parenting is one of the most important concepts on earth and it is one of the greatest needs of our world because every global crisis today points at the absence of real parents.

Often times we see people misbehave in the society or leaders who lie on TV, but we fail to ask the question ‘who are the parents?’. Kids naturally take up the nature and character of their parents except there is an intervention and that is why I often talk about the purity of a father’s breath which ultimately forms the character of a child.

If I pray for you now saying 'may your child become your secret life', would you be comfortable saying 'amen'?. Unfortunately, the real you that is hidden from the majority is what your child would take after except there is an intervention.

Our world has become a sexualized one and tending towards a homosexualized one because parents have lost what it means to be proper parents. As a matter of fact, I...

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 20– YOUR TREE CAN’T MAKE A FOREST

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 ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 20– YOUR TREE CAN’T MAKE A FOREST

A man told me that he is only accountable to God and I laughed because if God never wanted him to be accountable to any other human he wouldn’t have been born by human beings; wouldn’t have learnt ABC from anyone and God would have everything he needs  dropped directly from heaven. It is amazing how many of us lie to ourselves to escape reality. I still repeat today that anyone  without any authority figure like a mentor over his life is on his way to becoming a beast.

 We all need someone to call us to order and we can’t survive without such. As a matter of fact a Jewish Proverb says in the multitude of counsel there is safety and another says a child left alone will come to ruin. A lot of men have been destroyed because they have chosen not to be accountable. There must be a system around you that checks your life and all you do and that is why...

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE - WHEN TO RUN FOR YOUR LIFE

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 19– RUN FOR YOUR LIFE

 

The best place to stop an intruder is at the gate and not when you have served him dinner inside your bedroom

One of my mentors once told me that there are two ways to kill a lion – either you engage it in a combat and kill it if you are lucky just that you may have a few scars if you are strong enough. But there is another way which is to avoid a lion because a lion will naturally die for lack of prey. 

Too many times accidental spouses show signs and other times they even have a huge bill board with warning signs. Unfortunately, the passengers never read the warning signs because they are too much in love to see.

Here are some warning signs that shows when to run;

  • When you are seeing someone, who tells you he/she doesn’t believe he/she has to be accountable to any human being and goes further to say he is only accountable to God – RUN
  • When he/she says marriage is...
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IS YOUR SPOUSE ACCOUNTABLE?

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 18– WHO ARE YOU ACCOUNTABLE TO?

“A body of men holding themselves accountable to nobody ought not to be trusted by anybody.” 
― Thomas Paine

The fourth attribute of accidental spouse is  lack of accountability.

One consistent advice I have given to singles all through the years is never get married to a guy/lady who is not accountable or has got no mentor or someome he/she defers to because we are not built to be independent.

“Power corrupt and absolute power corrupt absolutely” this is why it is characteristic of military heads of states to run a tyrannical government because they have absolute powers. Everyone needs that one person in his/her life that can call him/her to order and the absence of that figure can spell doom for a man.

There must be someone in your life you respect enough to obey even when you are not sure of what he/she is saying. Unfortunately, lots of married...

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WHAT IS YOUR GREATEST MARITAL FEAR?

Uncategorized Mar 15, 2021

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 17– WHAT IS YOUR GREATEST MARITAL FEAR?

……..as he thinks in his heart so is he – King Solomon

Not many people know that we often attract our fears but this has been proven over and over again. Unknown to many our thoughts are prayers and that includes our fears because your mind doesn’t have the capacity to reject what you are running away from; it is scripted to obey the action words in your thoughts and bring them to pass.

For example, if your dominant thought is ‘I don’t want a spouse who will cheat on me’ what your mind hears is the word cheating and it will naturally magnetize your fears into your life. This is exactly the Bible did not say let the weak say I am not weak instead it says let the weak say I am strong.

If I asked you to think about this ‘I will not be poor’ and match it with images in your heart you will discover that poverty and wealth will...

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSES & MARITAL ASSUMPTION

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 16 – NEVER ASSUME MARRIAGE

I sit over domestic violence cases consistently and one common pattern I have noticed is the unequal yoke of the couples each time we run their beliefs assessment tests. The gap is often too wide that you knew they should never have married if the right things had been done in their marital preparatory class if there was any to start with.

Consistently a man whose definition of manhood is the superior gender that must be worshipped irrespective of his wisdom and competence marries a woman whose definition of a womanhood is the feminine expression of humanity(where manhood to her is defined as humanity).

How can these two live together successfully without any friction?

Assumption and lack of uniform definition of concepts and terms can totally destroy the joy of marriage that the two become a major accident waiting to happen. That is why beliefs alignment becomes critical in every marriage and this...

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Help! My Marital beliefs is killing me

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ACCIDENTAL SPOUSE – 15 – THE TRAJECTORY OF ERROR?

I usually would play a game in most of my classes by asking my students to write down something they are so sure of. I’d then ask the class to troubleshoot the belief with them to be sure it was their personal discovery or if they ever studied or questioned it before they accepted it. In 7 out of every 10 they usually discover their beliefs were borrowed beliefs.

More shocking for almost all the participants is the realization that not one of them every took out time to study simple everyday concepts like;

  • Who is a man vs woman?
  • What does husband or wife mean?
  • What is heaven or hell?
  • Who is a father or mother?
  • What is parenting?
  • Why did God make man?
  • What is marriage?

As you read this you may want to ask yourself the same question and if you can be honest with yourself I will appreciate your feedback. Have you ever took out time independently to study any of the above concepts...

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