Testing my innovation abroad

After creating the Out of the Box Parenting model for parents I spotted in my entire interaction with parents that marriage was a big problem and saw first-hand how culture and religion can sabotage two love birds and create a barrier.

I wanted to build a model...

My journey into Innovation

If you read the first part of my journey you would have noticed my first innovation post University was ‘toasting commercial sex workers’ out of prostitution and taking them back home to their parents. As a matter of fact that experience showed...

In the beginning

If you are from Nigeria, you should by now you should be familiar with the word #JAPA right? If you are not from Nigeria or from Africa #JAPA is the slang for those who are running away from one country to another due to the unpleasant circumstances in their home country.

How often do you see us celebrate wining marriages on the pages of our magazines? We talk more about the marriages heading for divorce and create so much fear in the minds of the younger generation as if it is almost impossible to get it right in this generation.

Before I got married, I...

I am amazed at the quest of many couples to copy and outdo Hollywood when it comes to the red carpet lifestyle as well as marriage. We copy both the good, the bad and the ugly such that we live in deception, thinking marital break-up is also one of the ways to cement our status as a celebrity.

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Her father was a senator while his father was a minister and they have been business associates for two decades. Bob and Risky are two silver spoons who had their education outside the country. Their parents felt they should take their relationship further by arranging for their children to be...

Someone once asked me: "Praise how can God speak to you about your choice of spouse and you still go through a troubled marriage?" I smiled and responded: "Have you not read that you have to work out your salvation with fear and trembling?" But someone is wondering why people play the religious...

Sis Janet and Bro Rasaq met at a spiritual conference and he felt ‘led’ to propose to her based on ‘what the spirit told him’. There was no history of friendship or a quest to seek to understand each other.

Now they have been married for 4years and constantly fight...

Are you in a marriage where you are constantly being compared to some other person somewhere or you are feeling so used and worn-out that it almost feels like you are only there because of your children?

Is your esteem so messed up that you look like a shadow of the chick he did everything...

Many of the issues we deal with in marriages are foundational problems that could have been properly handled if we had been adequately informed and prepared before delving into marriage.

That not withstanding, God is the restorer of faulty foundations and I am sure He often deploys therapy...

He had no job so was quite humble and willing to do everything  including running errands, but the moment he got his dream job, he wouldn’t even lift a finger anymore to assist, and he considers her no longer suitable for him.

 She had always desired the celebrated musician...

Thanks so much for reading this from me. I never take for granted the fact that you read from me. God bless all of you and may your home enjoy bliss. One of my readers asked an important question yesterday on how to handle a situation, where you have become a boss by your superior financial...